Every now and then—in everyday life or on blogs—someone will decry any perceived blurring of gender lines and declare something along the lines of Men and women are different. Their minds are just hard-wired differently. I have to say if that’s the case, you really shouldn’t have to declare or decry anything. If nature has… Continue reading Let nature do its own work
Category: Race, Class, Gender, Sexuality
Can objectification in moderation be okay?
As a longtime feminist, I’ve read quite a bit of both layperson and professional writing on the objectification of women, particularly the sexual objectification of women. I understand it’s wrong. I understand it’s damaging to society and is one of many ways the patriarchy tries to keep women down. My question, though, is whether the… Continue reading Can objectification in moderation be okay?
Stark Sexism
I was quite looking forward to this new Iron Man film adaption. I’ve been a big Iron Man fan for decades (particularly fond of the alcoholism saga and armor wars of the 80s and 90s). Well, last night, I saw an advanced screening of it at the Balboa Theater. I love this theater. With the… Continue reading Stark Sexism
Ode to Jason Segel’s Penis
A few months ago, I marveled at the ability of Beowolf‘s animators to hide the title character’s penis, despite the fact he was naked and jumping and moving every which way. Well, I just saw Forgetting Sarah Marshall, and I have to say I’m impressed. For a bawdy sex comedy featuring a male protagonist, it… Continue reading Ode to Jason Segel’s Penis
When will Asian-Americans get a Will Smith?
You may have missed it, but if you search for it, you will find it in abundance. It wasn’t played up a lot in mainstream media, but there was a little controversy about the hit movie 21. Apparently, a lot of Asian-Americans were in an uproar about how the race of the characters had been… Continue reading When will Asian-Americans get a Will Smith?
Malcolm X wasn’t the antithesis of Martin Luther King, Jr.
Rarely do the people I run into at work, church, or social settings express admiration for Malcolm X or even acknowledge his existence. The few times he’s mentioned are usually as a “rival” to Martin Luther King, Jr., with the understanding that MLK represents all that is good, and Malcolm X represents a violent, hating,… Continue reading Malcolm X wasn’t the antithesis of Martin Luther King, Jr.
What if “that” isn’t “so gay”?
I fully expect the “stop being so politically correct” comments to come pouring in for this, but I’ve always been bothered by the phrase That’s so gay. I’ve heard it from even my most liberal friends—friends who fully embrace equal rights for gays and lesbians. It is part of our culture. I even said it… Continue reading What if “that” isn’t “so gay”?
Ode to Beowolf’s Penis
Last night I saw Beowolf 3D—quite a technological feat. Most of the movie looked “real”; even the movement of the characters was very smooth. The nudity in the film was interesting, though. I think most people are familiar with the Hollywood nudity double standard, but in Beowolf it was pronounced to the point of being… Continue reading Ode to Beowolf’s Penis
Satisfy your curiosity the right way
In a previous entry, I ranted about people asking where I’m “really” from. Well, a few days ago, I had the good fortune to come across a white person who asked me (without my prompting her) how one is supposed to ask the question. I was actually taken off guard and didn’t have a ready… Continue reading Satisfy your curiosity the right way
Now I’m not Asian enough?
In a recent entry called Am I From China? No, I’m not, I talked about attempts by new acquaintances to make me a perpetual foreigner (despite the fact that I was born and raised in the US and hadn’t even visited Asia once until I was eleven). Well, yesterday, something weirdly the opposite happened. As… Continue reading Now I’m not Asian enough?