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	<title>Comments on: Jessica Valenti&#8217;s almost my hero</title>
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	<description>Random musings from the radical feminist Christian antiracist left - some having to do with Ubuntu</description>
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		<title>By: ubuntucat</title>
		<link>http://www.psychocats.net/ubuntucat/jessica-valentis-almost-my-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-3418</link>
		<dc:creator>ubuntucat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 16:40:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I haven&#039;t really read anything that makes the author sound like a whining perpetual victim, but I&#039;ve read plenty of literature that could be more easily misconstrued that way.

My point is that Valenti goes out of her way to make sure her writing is extremely unlikely to be perceived that way, even by antifeminists.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t really read anything that makes the author sound like a whining perpetual victim, but I&#8217;ve read plenty of literature that could be more easily misconstrued that way.</p>
<p>My point is that Valenti goes out of her way to make sure her writing is extremely unlikely to be perceived that way, even by antifeminists.</p>
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		<title>By: Dolly</title>
		<link>http://www.psychocats.net/ubuntucat/jessica-valentis-almost-my-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-3413</link>
		<dc:creator>Dolly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 23:50:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t think I&#039;ve read anything by Jessica Valenti, though I&#039;ve definitely heard of the two books you&#039;ve mentioned (and read criticisms of them). I think you make a good point after reading her work. Sexism does affect men too, often IMO in the form of confining expectations and norms of masculinity. Of course, thanks to you, I now know there are also legal restrictions! A man not being able to take on his wife&#039;s surname? That&#039;s absolutely ridiculous! 

I do have a question though... what writings have you read where the author sounded like a &quot;whining perpetual victim?&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve read anything by Jessica Valenti, though I&#8217;ve definitely heard of the two books you&#8217;ve mentioned (and read criticisms of them). I think you make a good point after reading her work. Sexism does affect men too, often IMO in the form of confining expectations and norms of masculinity. Of course, thanks to you, I now know there are also legal restrictions! A man not being able to take on his wife&#8217;s surname? That&#8217;s absolutely ridiculous! </p>
<p>I do have a question though&#8230; what writings have you read where the author sounded like a &#8220;whining perpetual victim?&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: idyllicmollusk</title>
		<link>http://www.psychocats.net/ubuntucat/jessica-valentis-almost-my-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-3411</link>
		<dc:creator>idyllicmollusk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:45:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Adam

Thanks for the reply.  Hasn&#039;t it always been the case that the poor have more children than the well-off?  And yet we&#039;ve always muddled through somehow.  One reason is poor does not equal stupid.

IQ is somewhat heritable.  But it is possible for children to exceed their parents.  Or fall below them.

@PartisanEntity

What are you talking about?  What is &quot;Middle East, where islamically speaking&quot;?  There are a whole bunch of different groups of people there, and these groups have different naming traditions than we do.  I don&#039;t think this statement is accurate.

And who are &quot;‘westernised’ Arab or Muslim women who are hip&quot;?  Are they arab muslim immigrants to the West, arab muslims born in the west, white muslims who converted in the west, black muslims in the west, christian arabs, ba&#039;hai arabs, etc you get the point.

Sorry to pick on you.  I just like to squabble about inaccurately grouping people together, especially when it comes to westerners talking about muslims.

Feel free to clarify.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Adam</p>
<p>Thanks for the reply.  Hasn&#8217;t it always been the case that the poor have more children than the well-off?  And yet we&#8217;ve always muddled through somehow.  One reason is poor does not equal stupid.</p>
<p>IQ is somewhat heritable.  But it is possible for children to exceed their parents.  Or fall below them.</p>
<p>@PartisanEntity</p>
<p>What are you talking about?  What is &#8220;Middle East, where islamically speaking&#8221;?  There are a whole bunch of different groups of people there, and these groups have different naming traditions than we do.  I don&#8217;t think this statement is accurate.</p>
<p>And who are &#8220;‘westernised’ Arab or Muslim women who are hip&#8221;?  Are they arab muslim immigrants to the West, arab muslims born in the west, white muslims who converted in the west, black muslims in the west, christian arabs, ba&#8217;hai arabs, etc you get the point.</p>
<p>Sorry to pick on you.  I just like to squabble about inaccurately grouping people together, especially when it comes to westerners talking about muslims.</p>
<p>Feel free to clarify.</p>
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		<title>By: Adam</title>
		<link>http://www.psychocats.net/ubuntucat/jessica-valentis-almost-my-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-3399</link>
		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 00:20:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>idyllicmollusk: What you say about IQ tests is quite true, but it is more complex than that. IQ tests are very culturally sensitive and also time context sensitive as well. If you wrote a US one from the 1940s today you would probably score below average, even if you score above average on today&#039;s tests, just because the language and culture have changed so much. That all makes it very hard to say if people are getting smarter or not. The tests are very relative and hard to compare.

And you are quite right, they generally do not measure innate intelligence, but rather more specific things more like problem solving instead.

I can&#039;t speak for other countries, like the USA, but here in Canada the majority of married couples under 35 now are choosing not to have children. There are exceptions to this and we do have high birth rates in some minority populations, particularly natives and some specific immigrant populations. Unfortunately this does result in relationship between education and reproduction.

I wasn&#039;t even alluding to &quot;college&quot; educated people as you supposed when I said &quot;educated&quot;, but high school. In Canada the birthrate amongst people with high school and up is quite low. Below that level the birthrate is much higher. Because IQ is quite heritable, that is a scary thought to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>idyllicmollusk: What you say about IQ tests is quite true, but it is more complex than that. IQ tests are very culturally sensitive and also time context sensitive as well. If you wrote a US one from the 1940s today you would probably score below average, even if you score above average on today&#8217;s tests, just because the language and culture have changed so much. That all makes it very hard to say if people are getting smarter or not. The tests are very relative and hard to compare.</p>
<p>And you are quite right, they generally do not measure innate intelligence, but rather more specific things more like problem solving instead.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t speak for other countries, like the USA, but here in Canada the majority of married couples under 35 now are choosing not to have children. There are exceptions to this and we do have high birth rates in some minority populations, particularly natives and some specific immigrant populations. Unfortunately this does result in relationship between education and reproduction.</p>
<p>I wasn&#8217;t even alluding to &#8220;college&#8221; educated people as you supposed when I said &#8220;educated&#8221;, but high school. In Canada the birthrate amongst people with high school and up is quite low. Below that level the birthrate is much higher. Because IQ is quite heritable, that is a scary thought to me.</p>
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		<title>By: PartisanEntity</title>
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		<dc:creator>PartisanEntity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 09:41:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ironically, in the Middle East, where islamically speaking a woman has the right to keep her name, &#039;westernised&#039; Arab or Muslim women who are hip and often come from privileged backgrounds are tending to give up their family names.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ironically, in the Middle East, where islamically speaking a woman has the right to keep her name, &#8216;westernised&#8217; Arab or Muslim women who are hip and often come from privileged backgrounds are tending to give up their family names.</p>
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		<title>By: idyllicmollusk</title>
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		<dc:creator>idyllicmollusk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 04:43:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m guessing Adam is being facetious, but in case he isn&#039;t, here&#039;s my unwanted two cents.

What you describe is called &quot;social Darwinism&quot; and is the basis for the pro-eugenics arguments that were made in the early 20th century.

It is incorrect that &quot;most&quot; educated people choose not to have children.

People who do not choose to attend college are not all &quot;stupid&quot;.  That&#039;s a tad condescending.

When IQ tests are &quot;renormed&quot; occasionally, it is because over time, around the world, human IQs are getting higher generation by generation.  As societies become more complex, the average member of society can score higher than previous generations.  Our grandparents would have scored so low on our current renormed IQ tests that they would have been classified as below average.  It is clear that IQ tests don&#039;t measure &quot;intelligence&quot; in general, but a specific &lt;i&gt;kind&lt;/i&gt; of intellligence.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m guessing Adam is being facetious, but in case he isn&#8217;t, here&#8217;s my unwanted two cents.</p>
<p>What you describe is called &#8220;social Darwinism&#8221; and is the basis for the pro-eugenics arguments that were made in the early 20th century.</p>
<p>It is incorrect that &#8220;most&#8221; educated people choose not to have children.</p>
<p>People who do not choose to attend college are not all &#8220;stupid&#8221;.  That&#8217;s a tad condescending.</p>
<p>When IQ tests are &#8220;renormed&#8221; occasionally, it is because over time, around the world, human IQs are getting higher generation by generation.  As societies become more complex, the average member of society can score higher than previous generations.  Our grandparents would have scored so low on our current renormed IQ tests that they would have been classified as below average.  It is clear that IQ tests don&#8217;t measure &#8220;intelligence&#8221; in general, but a specific <i>kind</i> of intellligence.</p>
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		<title>By: ubuntucat</title>
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		<dc:creator>ubuntucat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 21:53:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@mc
Well, it is kind of a personal question, so I won&#039;t go into all the reasons. I&#039;ll just say that when it comes to having kids or not, my wife and I very much believe in asking &quot;Why?&quot; and not asking &quot;Why not?&quot; As we haven&#039;t found a compelling enough reason to have kids, we&#039;re going to plan not to have kids at this point.

We have nothing against people who have kids, and we love other people&#039;s kids.

@Adam
Yes, that is unfortunate. Nevertheless, it&#039;s the truth. People, many people, have accused us of being selfish. I have read quite a bit of literature suggesting that having fewer or no kids is actually one of the most environmentally responsible things you can do to care for the planet. In the whole &quot;Reduce, Reuse, Recycle&quot; scheme of the environmental movement, Reduce is the most effective measure. We&#039;ll see how much this planet can take of human consumption.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@mc<br />
Well, it is kind of a personal question, so I won&#8217;t go into all the reasons. I&#8217;ll just say that when it comes to having kids or not, my wife and I very much believe in asking &#8220;Why?&#8221; and not asking &#8220;Why not?&#8221; As we haven&#8217;t found a compelling enough reason to have kids, we&#8217;re going to plan not to have kids at this point.</p>
<p>We have nothing against people who have kids, and we love other people&#8217;s kids.</p>
<p>@Adam<br />
Yes, that is unfortunate. Nevertheless, it&#8217;s the truth. People, many people, have accused us of being selfish. I have read quite a bit of literature suggesting that having fewer or no kids is actually one of the most environmentally responsible things you can do to care for the planet. In the whole &#8220;Reduce, Reuse, Recycle&#8221; scheme of the environmental movement, Reduce is the most effective measure. We&#8217;ll see how much this planet can take of human consumption.</p>
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		<title>By: Adam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 20:30:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is funny that, in a world where virtually every problem we have is related to to human over-population, some people consider &quot;not having kids&quot; to be selfish. Actually having kids is the most selfish thing you can do and contributes to the increased risk of annihilation of humans and almost everything else on this planet.

It is also kind of funny that most educated people these days choose not to have children. In fact there is a Darwinian problem here in that a significant amount of the human reproduction that is going on is amongst those people who are too stupid to figure out birth control. Since IQ is highly heritable this means that we are naturally selecting humans to become stupider over time. 

Ironically IQ testing is always normalized on an on-going basis so that it averages out to 100, so most testing won&#039;t even pick up this problem.

When Stephen Hawking was asked a few years ago why we hadn&#039;t been contacted by more advanced civilizations, he responded by saying that he thought it was because when civilizations got just beyond our stage they destroyed themselves. Now that is funny and probably quite insightful!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is funny that, in a world where virtually every problem we have is related to to human over-population, some people consider &#8220;not having kids&#8221; to be selfish. Actually having kids is the most selfish thing you can do and contributes to the increased risk of annihilation of humans and almost everything else on this planet.</p>
<p>It is also kind of funny that most educated people these days choose not to have children. In fact there is a Darwinian problem here in that a significant amount of the human reproduction that is going on is amongst those people who are too stupid to figure out birth control. Since IQ is highly heritable this means that we are naturally selecting humans to become stupider over time. </p>
<p>Ironically IQ testing is always normalized on an on-going basis so that it averages out to 100, so most testing won&#8217;t even pick up this problem.</p>
<p>When Stephen Hawking was asked a few years ago why we hadn&#8217;t been contacted by more advanced civilizations, he responded by saying that he thought it was because when civilizations got just beyond our stage they destroyed themselves. Now that is funny and probably quite insightful!</p>
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		<title>By: mc</title>
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		<dc:creator>mc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 19:48:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;My wife and I definitely don’t want to have kids, and I think we’ve heard the /selfish/ line about equally.&quot;

I&#039;m sorry for the personal question, but may I ask why? You seem like you&#039;d be a great father, your opinions are sound and moderate, and the experience being a teacher would probably help. Honestly kind of reminds me of my father.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;My wife and I definitely don’t want to have kids, and I think we’ve heard the /selfish/ line about equally.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry for the personal question, but may I ask why? You seem like you&#8217;d be a great father, your opinions are sound and moderate, and the experience being a teacher would probably help. Honestly kind of reminds me of my father.</p>
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